Why are so many of us single?

There are sooooo many blogs and posts and comments about being single and not finding ‘the right one’ and being ‘tired of this single ish’. I’m seeing Studs lament over the lack of Femms and Femms b*tch about the lack of Studs. WTH?

Here is what I have learned everyone has a ‘list’ in the back of their head describing the qualities they would like in a potential partner. The key words here ladies are ‘WOULD LIKE’ and ‘POTENTIAL’. Obviously no one is perfect. Soooo… what is the problem? Compromise is a wonderful thing! It is our flaws that help make us beautiful and sometimes… the things we are NOT looking for are the things we actually NEED!

If the Studs are walking around looking for a Femm they want and the Femms are walking around looking for a Stud they want, if so many of us are serious and looking… then why are so many of us single?